About love, successful men, occupations and family scandals
QUESTION 1. HOW TO ANSWER A MAN WHY YOU NEED HIM, AND NOT TO SLIDE BACK INTO THE DECLARATION OF LOVE?
Communication problem: a man asked you — why do you, a smart, beautiful, independent woman need to marry, if you live so well anyway? Why do you need him? How not to slide back into a declaration of love?
How to correctly answer a man why you need him?
Answer: It is difficult to answer the question without knowing the full picture. If your man is self-sufficient, then the question may be a kind of provocation. If a man is not enough successful and weaker than you are, he can ask for it in the hope of asserting himself and improving his self-esteem.
Answer yourself: what’s your choice and what do you expect from your relationship. In one position you’re right, you shouldn’t slide back to a declaration of love and to prove something to a man, raising his self-esteem. If your man is successful, he knows his own worth. He is not afraid of the best women, in fact, he looks for them and wants to be together only with the best one.
In your case, you do not need to raise his self-esteem with a declaration of love. Praise him more often, encourage him to be successful, in order that he grows up next to you. Because of this he is sure to be happy to have a woman like you next to him — the muse and inspirer, able to support him on the way towards his success.
He will hold you firmly with both hands, and not push away and ask for the proof that you love him and that you need him.
QUESTION 2. THE OCCUPATION OF A MAN IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOR ME NOW … HOW TO SEE MY MAN AND NOT HIS PROFESSION?
I am meeting a man on a dating site. We are texting, and then it turns out that he is, for example, a wholesale manager in one company. And my interest for him weakens immediately.
I lived before with a man who had a small business of his own and now I want a man with the same mentality and a free schedule. It turns out that a man’s occupation is the most important for me now.
How to see your man, and not his profession?
Answer: If you want more successful men to be hooked on, those who match your request, raise your own bar. Review your photos on a dating site — who are you on them? What level do they show? What do you communicate by them?
And you do not necessarily need to be dressed in a super-luxury brand dress … What is important is your style and presence. Carefully review your profile. What do you write in it? Is everything the same as that of the others, or do you have it original with a twist?
A successful man seeks a woman of his own development level — diverse and interesting, elegant and attractive just like him. And he is looking for the best, that many men will like, for whom they are fighting, and wish to win.
And of course, communicate, do not focus on the sphere of his occupation, do not dwell on it. Perhaps when you know a man better, you will change your opinion about his profession.
QUESTION 3. TO DIVORCE OR NOT TO DIVORCE?..
My husband is a manipulator! We quarrel with him every 2 weeks, and I am living like on a volcano. Maybe I made a mistake with the choice?
To divorced or not to divorce?
Answer: You already have a relationship, and the main task is not to break it down completely, and try to fix it. Unfortunately you have given too little information about your situation … I do not know you, nor your man, but I can say for sure: I’m always for the creation of the family!
A sudden divorce is much worse than a sudden marriage. If you are living like on a volcano, then you have your female energy clogged. You are inhibited, stretched and filled with anger. You may also response for his provocations with negative energy. As a result, you put your man into a negative state even deeper.
Try to let go of the situation and redirect your focus on yourself: begin to flourish as a woman, do something interesting, get a nice hobby, do some yoga to revive your feminine energy.
Raise your own self-esteem. Nobody, not even your husband has the right to manipulate you. It helps in all circumstances and situations of conflict.
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